penetration experiences

page updated: 31-Mar-2004

This is the act that usually defines hetero sex; purity tests require only penetration not orgasm. For me it just distinguishes "intercourse" from other kinds of smut. Again I will point out that I don't think any one sex act automatically has more "status" or is more intimate than another.

I use the word penetration to describe the state of an external object being partly inside me. Usually this refers to being inside my vagina, but on occasion things have penetrated my nose and other body parts. I give much more thought to vaginal penetration, and I suppose anal, maybe because these acts have no real purpose or motivation besides penetration. (Usually my nose is penetrated for the purpose of scratching etc).

Quite a bit is actually already written about this topic as part of other pages, so I won't repeat it (no need to make this site more extremely wordy). See inside for things that have been inside my vagina and what they found there. See toys for a specific object that has penetrated my vagina and which I have used to penetrate another person. See sensitivity for what it feels like to me. I have a feeling this page will be heavily cross-referenced.

For some reason, I only think of things as penetrating me when they are both inside and outside of me at the same time; ie., they cross the boundary of Me. Thus, I don't usually think of tampons or menstrual products penetrating me; I think of them being carried inside me.

When my vagina is entered by something sizable, usually a penis, several neighbouring tissues and organs are affected. Inside has some general details. Some things that I actually consider at such times are my cervix, because it is painful to bump it the wrong way, and my ovaries, because I read in a book about sex positions that deep penetration from behind can actually bump them and hurt. I sometimes forget how small the female reproductive tract is. Diagrams of it always look huge, I think because of the whole looking-like-a-cow's-head thing. Cows have big heads.

Also, if I have to pee at all, I can be aware of my bladder through my vagina.

If the first few penetrating movements are slow-ish, it will often help prevent any neighbouring organs and tissues from entering the fray. I think this has to do with the way that the average erect penis is actually longer than the average vagina, and the way that vaginas conveniently puff out backwards past the cervix when they are excited, making a pouch for amorous phalluses to fit into. I think the slow start helps this pocket, and the various curves and swells of my vagina to get opened and more aligned. This makes an easy course for future loving, and prevents further thrusts from veering off course, say into the bit of vagina (fornix) in front of the cervix where it isn't so stretchy and receptive, and where it will make my bladder think it must be time to pee.

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