make-out spots

page updated: 31-Mar-2004

against walls and upright structures (indoor/outdoor)

Pressing someone up against a wall can be very sexy, in that they are somewhat trapped against you and held against you (of course not sexy for that person if they want to get away -- sane, safe, consensual please). I like both being pressed and doing the pressing.

Most often, for me, sex against an upright surface has resulted from kissing against one. The full body contact can get me quite aroused, and lead to seduction. I can't recall ever wanting to have sex and thus taking my partner over to a wall. It has been purely spontaneous, often intended as a temporary, teasing sort of penetration before we went off to bed or I had to leave or go to the bathroom or something.

I can't decide whether my boy or I is more likely to end up against a wall when we have sex like this. We switch, as often we are in a hallway and can push or pull each other to one side or the other. I think overall I might be more frequently against the wall, because if my pants are still partly on it is easier if I am not trying to straddle my boy, which is the easiest way to get him inside me if he is the one backed up against something.

I think that the relative heights of partners can affect success with this kind of sex. A taller female makes deeper penetration easier, as she can spread her legs apart a bit without becoming awkwardly short.

In a similar consideration, this isn't the easiest way to have sex in a public place, where one doesn't want to remove a lot of clothing for fear of having to cover up quickly, or if one simply can't get one's pants off without removing shoes. Pants around ankles keep legs rather glued together (at least when standing up) and make it hard to get very close to a lover.

Pantsless or in a skirt, it is possible to have a girl wrap her legs around her boy's waist and be held up against a wall/tree/whatever during lovemaking. I have only ever done this for brief periods between standing, and again this was the result of spontaneous escalation.

One final note is that upright structures can have different angles. Walls and trees tend to be mainly vertical, but I once made love against a small lighthouse, which tapered from base to top and thus had a reclining sort of wall. In my head, I expected this slope to make it easier to balance and move. However, the opposite was true-- the reclining position made my feet get in the way and made it harder for my boy to get at me. I don't know if it would have been easier had he been against the wall instead of me.

Wait, wait: an extra consideration, in the blushing giggle category. Having hetero sex standing up, against a wall or any other way, can have the titillating result of a lot of the male partner's ejaculate ending up on the ground. I guess this has only actually happened to me once, and it was due to awkward timing (thrust, come, slip out by mistake, all fluids make their escape). Still, I quite enjoyed it. (I don't know; we thought it was pretty funny. It made a splat sound!)

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