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I don't find that anything the size of fingers causes pain when inserted this way. Two fingers starts to be a noticeable force, but again not painful. Mostly fingers feel slippery, I think because they don't stretch things enough to compromise the mucus that naturally lines the inside of the opening. Also they can satisfy desires for penetration, whether that desire was general or specific to the backside.

Anything larger like a penis or a dildo requires quite a bit of pressure to insert, and generous lubrication. Initially it can hurt some, but more lube and more arousal will fix this. I don't find this to be in any way unbearable, and enough lubrication and patience can reduce it to nothing. When there is a definite pain, it is of the burning type (as opposed to ache or something).

For this to relax, it helps for me to be both actively aroused and actively relaxing myself. I tend to lie flat on my tummy, to be better relaxed and unstretched. Also I find it is necessary for the phallic object to be inserted far enough that it is past its widest point, so that I'm not being actively stretched by any movement (I'm staying the same size). This requires gentle but steady pressure until it gets to a manageable place. I know a girl who "gets off on the pain" but mostly I work with it until it settles down a bit.

I do notice that if it hurt at the time, I will be tender for a day or so afterwards. Anybody constipated or having very stiff poo would probably suffer rather a lot. (Take-home lesson: use more lube. It can be the slippiness made by boy's and my bodies, but it has to be there).

The other main sensation involved with this is one of fullness, which is approximately the same feeling as being in the middle of pooing and requires me to resist the urge to push. This has elegantly been described by others as "like shitting backwards!"

None of this sounds terribly sexy, I'm sure. I think at least part of the fun is the idea of it all. "I'm a hardcore smut" etc. The other part is the serious feeling of being penetrated, which, as a person whose primary sexual organ is designed to invite penetration, I can appreciate when I'm in the mood. Also, it makes a huge difference if either myself or special boy strokes or touches my clitoris and vulva during all this. It keeps my arousal up and makes the penetration sexual for me, instead of just anal. I've had pretty good orgasms this way.

I don't always come during anal sex, partly because it doesn't involve my clitoris and partly because we usually are done quite quickly, compared to our usual sex. I think mainly this is because my boy doesn't make a point of waiting for me, since it can be an easily overstayed state for me to be in. Usually my desires for this kind of contact are sated soon after things get started so this is fine with me. I can be taken care of other ways.

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