anal sex adventures

page updated: 31-Mar-2004

It isn't very often that I have a desire to have anything up my bum, but occasionally my ass does get aroused (somebody please quote that last bit somewhere). It took me a minute to figure out that this wasn't purely a mental desire. There are physical qualities that make the err... backdoor an erotic location. It has a billion nerves and is very sensitive, and also it is somehow connected to or involved with the muscles in the vagina and the pelvic floor (the Kegel exercise muscles). So it gets squeezed too when the vaginal muscles hug themselves or bear down.

Thus, it isn't that surprising that when I am very aroused and excited, I sometimes get a desire to be touched there along with the rest of me. It can be very sexy to be touched or kissed there during sex, oral sex or just foreplay. Initially I was embarrassed to be kissed there, but I do make a point of keeping it clean and eventually I calmed down.

This desiring is even more true of my boy. I don't have a special erotic spot inside myself there, the way he does. Mine is inside my vagina. Touching him there during sex can heighten his excitement, whereas it often just distracts me. I am more into it in conjunction with oral sex.

Whether or not any penetration is involved, some slipperiness in the area is of great advantage (this can be from a bottle or from the wetness I make). It makes things less likely to chafe or tickle, and makes access easier (both to get to it and to get into it). During most activities, it is a slightly awkward area to reach and the slipperiness reduces resistance to approach from indirect angles. After all, the door itself is buried within bum cheeks that can can squeeze and generally be in the way (although they can also be fleshy and sexy).

Also, by nature the anus is a less receiving opening than the vagina or the mouth. It takes some effort to slip into it, and slipperiness makes it much easier. It is kind of sexy to have it be easy to play with because then more casual intimate contact is possible, if that makes sense. It doesn't require such a commitment and obvious effort to do anything to it. It can be secondary to other things, or it can be teasing. Casual.

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