Gettin' It On
This “sex” directory didn't get created until a little late in the game, so some of these pages live elsewhere on the site. But, for your convenience—and as my way of supporting the idea that sexual activity is not a hierarchy of inferior acts that exist only as steps toward the glorious goal of heterosexual penetration— I've collected most of the smutty topics here in one big list, all under the banner of S-E-X.
Activities (alphabetically, what else?)
- Anal sex
- Cybersex
- Dreams, wet and otherwise
- Masturbation (solo)
- Oral sex
- Period sex
- Phone sex
- Playing with pee
- Talking dirty
- Touching (with a friend)
- Toys
- Vaginal penetration
Related considerations
- Arousal
- Birth control
- Celibacy
- Condoms
- Injuries, and their avoidance
- Libido (sex drive)
- Locations in which I've had sex
- Orgasms
- Sex positions (for penetration)
- Slipperiness
- Soreness
- Stretchiness
- Wet spots
Not yet discussed...
- Safety and hygeine (but see condoms and birthcontrol)
- Pleasure and enjoyment (but see orgasms)
- Vocabulary, names (but see talking dirty)
- Mood and ambience
- Timing
- Propositions
- Partners
- Group sex
- Sex as exercise
- Sacred/tantric/new/pro sex
- Sexiness, fetishes, etc.
- Social/family context
- Learning, techniques
I haven't written much about my first time having sex, but I highly recommend Scarleteen's guide to first time sex.
Cat Yronwode has written several excellent, accessible articles about sacred sex and extended orgasm techniques at Lucky Mojo.
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